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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.

I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.

At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett

"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)

5.18.2008

A Good Weekend

Mike had a good weekend! He tried to get outside and do a few things he enjoys before treatment on Thursday. He wanted to take a drive in the Miata with the top down, so we drove to Hot Springs and had lunch on Saturday. He also washed the Miata and spent some time outdoors watching his grandson Drew, play in the pool Sunday. He sat on the screen porch listening to music on his IPOD, and later on grilled out some BBQ. So he made good use of the nice weather and feeling "good" while he could.

We were talking about his pain in his fingers and feet and he told me he really doesn't know if it is getting worse or staying the same. He thinks it may be a little worse because he is needing to hit the pain medication a little more often the past couple of months. But he told me, it wasn't enough to make him want to change the treatment. So, this is a matter I would appreciate your prayers about. I know how badly he wants this tumor gone, but I pray permanent damage to his nerve endings in his feet and fingers won't occur. I know he has quite a lot of discomfort walking, and then that causes other areas of his body to hurt because he tries to make compensation for that. We'll just keep trusting that God will remove this tumor as quickly as possible.

Thank you for checking in on us and lifting Mike and our family in your prayers. A quick update on Matt, Jill & Drew....there have been no garanteed job leads yet. There are still a couple of possibilities, but nothing confirmed, so we're continuing to trust God for an answer for their situation as well.

"Lord of Heaven and Earth, help us to be still and know You are God; You will be exalted among the nations. You will be exalted in the earth. You, Lord Almighty, are with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress." Psalm 46:10-11

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