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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.

I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.

At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett

"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)

4.25.2011

Wading in Water

What could be worse than moving?  Moving in rain!  There is water EVERYWHERE, and running to the laundry room to wait out tornado alerts, is slowing me down from getting this process over with!

We have most of the larger items moved.  Because I felt this process might be difficult on the kids (because it already has been on me), I hired a moving team to help Glenn and I move the larger pieces of furniture.  We did a lot on our own, and we certainly have bruises and scrapes as our battle scars, but we've been able to do it mostly at our own pace, and that has helped make it a little easier.  

After taking a week off to go on a little vacation with one of Glenn's daughters and her family, we will return to have a moving sale.  Blending two family households together, is leaving us with a double car garage full of "stuff"! Once that is done, we will tidy up the place and list it for sale.  That will be the most difficult part of the process for me.  "God's Acre" (the name we had secretly given it) was a dream come true for Mike and I.  I was blessed to be able to live in it for almost 10 years.  I pray whomever purchases it, will be blessed as deeply, and their dreams made true too.

On a positive note...the pool at Glenn's home, is just around the corner....meaning, the schedule was moved up and we are next in line.  It was suppose to begin being dug last Friday...BUT....we have developed our own Arkansan swimming pool the natural way. :-) Once we get rid of standing water in the backyard, the pool process will continue.  We can't wait to get all of the grandchildren together.  Between the two of us, we now have 10!  I think it will get a lot of use!

I had a picture I wanted to share in this post.  This sweet site is just outside my new bedroom window.  I have enjoyed watching this process take place during my month long moving in process.  New life!!!  Makes me hunger for the everlasting life God has promised to His children who believe and trust Him,  beyond what they can fully understand, or feel they deserve.

Enjoy, and God bless!!




4.16.2011

Just Plain Worn Out!

Well...more furniture is at Glenn's house than at mine....so I'm guessing we're making progress!  It's just a little bit tricky walking through the maze of boxes here, and four puppy dogs under foot.  Three can't hear and one can't see.  Dogs, that is.

4.13.2011

Exhausted!

Oh my......Trying to move all of my things into Glenn's house isn't going as easily as I was hoping.  We have been trying to do it alone...but both of us have been running out of strength, are pretty bruised, have aches and pains all over, and I personally, had a pity party yesterday, thinking everything just wasn't going to fit.  After a good boo hoo....I remembered I had forgotten to take some important medication for about five days.  No wonder!

Today....we contined to plug away.  We've decided we're going to hire some movers to help us with the remaining larger items.  Glenn is so sweet offering to help me take some things Mike made me over the years, and some of my flowers, which will help me feel I have a little bit of "God's Acre" still with me.

But I had a bright spot in my day today too.......  My little grandson, Drew, came to see me.  Evidently he has been wanting to do this awhile.  I was afraid what he would think of the house being almost empty...but he handled it so well.  I don't think he's fully grasped it all yet, but he is so cute trying.  He wanted to know if the "people" were going to buy a wall or a window.....and when I tried to describe the swimming pool we're putting in over at Glenn's house, somehow the details got lost in the translation.  He thought we were putting it inside the house I'm leaving, and he thought the rug was going to be under it. :-)  (Get to feeling better soon, Drew!  Nama loves you!)

4.09.2011

Packing Up

Haven't been able to finish photos of our trip to Hawaii.  I have spent the past week, or more, packing up 35 years of memories and possessions and trying to pack them into a house already full of the same. 

It doesn't help that I am sentimental and want to keep everything.  I'm thankful God is allowing me some time to process this step slowly, without any pressure of needing to be out by a certain time.  I just need everyone's prayers to release my grip,  and possibly could benefit from a donation of Klennex! :-(

4.02.2011

Hilo Hawaii (The Big Island)

We See Land!  Hello Hilo!!!

A Blow Hole

Volcano Crater

 Inner Rim of Volcano Crater in the Center, and the Outer Rim

Restrictions have been made on how close tourists can get to the rim.  This is about the closest.  We've heard that since we've come home, the entire area has been restricted to tourists now.

Walking through a Lava Tube





In this picture...the volcano was only steaming, but Glenn and I got tired and went back to the tourist bus, and while we were in there, the volcano erupted. See the photos below!





Next....the Macadamia Nut Factory.............Souvenir time!!!

To be continued........