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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.

I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.

At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett

"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)

1.27.2009

"I wait for the Lord...and in His word do I hope." Psalm 130:5

Every day Mike continues to improve. He is feeling good and is back doing some of the things he enjoys..."working out" at physical therapy, playing with his grandchildren, and playing his drums.

Thursday we have an appointment and labwork with Mike's oncologist here. I expect we will discuss the results from our Houston trip, and the thought, Mike should have his thyroid checked.

We had a little bit of good news this week. Our Cobra payment, which had gone up in cost, is being lowered back to the first quote we received. That saves us approximately $127 per month. And it appears that we will have that insurance coverage possibly through March now, instead of just through February. We still have our backup insurance (CHIP) to cover Mike, when our Cobra policy ends.

Also, the social security disability phone interview went well last Friday, and we were told that there would be a compassion clause attached to Mike's paperwork, to speed up the process. Mike's long term disability insurer is paying for the attorneys fees in filing for this, which is another blessing. So God is caring for all the little details in our lives.

We appreciate your prayers and support very much. You may never realize how important your quick hugs, brief notes, or smiles comfort us, or encourage us forward. When our thoughts and feelings get so scrambled trying to deal with everything; those quick reminders, keep us tethered to hope. Thank you.

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