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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.
I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.
At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett
"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)
7.07.2009
The doctor listened to Mike's lungs and believes fluid is beginning to build up in them. Mike had gained a few pounds, and instead of it meaning this was true weight Mike has gained, the doctor feels it is fluid weight. Mike persuaded the doctor to let it ride for a week, and it must not be too concerning, or I would think he wouldn't have listened to Mike. He told Mike the increased fluid could be why he's feeling some discomfort under his arm, and on his right side where the biliary drain is. It also explains his shortness of breath.
The bruising effect across Mike's upper chest is blood rushed capillaries, because the blood is trying to find away around the blockage. The doctor didn't seem concerned, but he did check Mike over pretty well, and wants to see him again next Tuesday. Mike has also developed a rash across his back. Although the doctor seemed a little puzzled, he was not concerned.
So this turned out to be the only appointment Mike will have to have this week, because we were able to get the oncology blood work, and this other ProTime blood work, done at the same time, as well as seeing the Internist because of this discoloration across Mike's upper right chest.
Mike has had little energy today and hasn't eaten very well. He did come downstairs later in the afternoon when Amber and Ethan visited. I was thankful to see Mike up and moving around a little.
I made the decision to reattach Mike's drain this evening because of some changes I've been noticing when I'm changing out the dressing. I'm hoping we can correct things and avoid another biliary exchange so soon.
Thank you for your unfailing love, encouragement and prayers.
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