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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.

I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.

At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett

"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)

7.24.2009

The picture above is a few years old, but it is one of Mike, with his sister Lynne, and her husband, Charlie. Charlie and Lynne are retired and presently live in New Hampshire, but they called today to let us know their home finally sold (after a couple of years being on the market), and they are headed this way. They should arrive September 10th. They will stay in our studio/guest house, until they find a home they want to buy. I can't begin to share how relieved I am. It is going to be a comfort having them near.

Mike didn't have a good night last night, or a good day today. In fact, he has been in bed ever since I left at lunch time. He's hardly eaten anything. He's nauseated and exhausted.

This morning after I went to work, he came downstairs to make himself some hot tea, and forgot to check to see if there was water in the teapot. He turned the stove on, and after several minutes, it blackened my pot and the house began to smell horrible. That was when he realized what was happening. I'm really getting nervous leaving him alone right now. He just hasn't been completely with it these last few days. I pray he improves soon.

Thank you for your thoughts, prayers, and encouragement.

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