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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.
I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.
At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett
"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)
8.04.2009
We didn't end up seeing the oncologist today. We misunderstood the schedule. Mike had his second treatment today and we just finished getting his other lung drained. Mike misunderstood the measurement yesterday of what was removed from the left side. It was 1000 cc's of fluid, not 1000 mililiters. Today they removed 1300 cc's off the right side. He struggled at one point during the procedure, which they said was a charley horse of sorts, in his right lung. It scared Mike briefly, but he was able to catch his breath moments later, and the spasm went away.
Mike has been very unsteady on his feet today. He was strongly urged to ride in a wheelchair at both the doctors office, and later at the hospital, when he had to quickly sit down because of dizziness and weakness. He felt pretty drugged following the treatment...I'm assuming, from the Benadryl. He is home and in bed now, so maybe he can get some rest and feel better.
Thank you for continuing to pray for us.
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