Pages
In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.
I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.
At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett
"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)
8.17.2009
Mike had a better day today, after a bad nights rest. He has developed a cough, that sounds like someone badly congested, yet he doesn't have a cold or virus, as far as we know. He went back on the oxygen Sunday after complaining of being short of breath. I'm concerned it has some thing to do with the pleural effusion problem. Mike is telling me he has a tightness in his chest and abdomen. He also says that his esophagus hurts when he coughs. We see the oncologist tomorrow and it wouldn't surprise me if he doesn't order a chest xray, or press us to have an endoscopy. Mike will also receive another treatment tomorrow, if all the labs are good.
On the praise side of things....Mike has eaten better the last two days and nights. They are still smaller portions than he usually eats, but I'm grateful he is receiving some good nourishment. We have been so blessed to have friends from church, prepare us meals a couple of days a week, for the entire month of August. A lot of love has gone into them, and we're so grateful!
His lovingkindness is new everyday!
No comments:
Post a Comment