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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.
I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.
At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett
"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)
8.22.2009
When we got to the ER, we explained the procedure he had done Friday and told them of the plans to have the other side done Monday. They did an XRAY, a blood gas and other blood work, which showed the lung hadn't collapsed, it only had a lot of fluid around them. The doctor felt there was not really anything they could do to help us. Mike was already on oxygen. He offered to admit us, if we felt we wanted to do that, but his suggestion was simply to speak with our oncologist. We were sent home around 7:30 a.m.
Since being home, we have tried to rest, but it's difficult for Mike to get comfortable. It hurts for him to breathe deeply, he has some bedsores that are really painful for him, and this other accumulated fluid isn't comfortable either. We're both pretty exhausted. We could really use everyone's prayers as we continue to fight our way through these obstacles.
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