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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.
I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.
At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett
"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)
9.18.2009
The Home Health nurse came by to check Mike and she indicated his lungs were clear. It is so hard for me to understand that, with the way he sounds at night coughing. But, I'll take any good news we can get.
Mike bedsores are slowly improving. Both nurses thought they were on the mend, and Mike seems like he has been in less discomfort from them. This floatation pillow idea has been a life saver with these bedsores. Mike carries it from room to room.
Monday, Mike's paracentesis is scheduled. I'm hoping it will bring him the relief he's wanting and needing. It's amazing how much fluid they can draw off from it. It's unfortunate that its necessary to repeat again, but with a wonderful radiologist doing the job, Mike hardly thinks twice about getting it done. We doubt the tube will be left in this time, since we had trouble with it pulling partially out last time, and causing some uncomfortable swelling.
I feel a pinch under the weather this afternoon/evening. Hopefully a good nights rest will do the trick. I would appreciate your prayers that this might only be my disease flaring, and that Mike will remain protected from catching any viruses.
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