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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.

I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.

At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett

"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)

11.10.2009

My mom called and told me that it was a very positive consultation with the surgeon. The surgeon had already made contact with the doctor that did dad's swallowing tests a few weeks ago, so he was aware that my dad's feeding tube would need to be put into his small intestine, rather than his stomach, since it's not working properly. So, the procedure is next Tuesday at 2pm. They will have to put him out for the procedure, but they don't feel it will be a problem with his blood pressure since it will be for such a brief time. It appears to have been a very good visit because the doctor was making comments about "bulking dad up". I'm relieved. I feel that dad will finally get the nutrition he needs and his body will be able to start functioning properly again...at least as much as it can. The holidays will hopefully go smoothly since we'll know he's getting the nutrition he needs and he can still eat whatever he wants to as well. YAY! Please continue to pray that my dad will avoid any illnesses and that this procedure will go smoothly next week and that he will begin to gain some weight and feel back to his normal self. Thank you for your continued prayers and support.