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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.
I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.
At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett
"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)
1.27.2011
1.25.2011
Found an answer to the guys shirt problem, yesterday, which meant another trip back to LR today to return the other option. But with these weekly doctor appointments of mine to LR lately, there is always something else I can get done while I'm over there, and I'm all for checking things off my list!
Glenn had an engagement photo announcement put into the paper for this Sunday. So be warned....one slightly sun-baked granny coming your way! Frankly, I'm a little embarrassed...at my age...but.....I think Glenn is so excited, he'd shout it from the top of the world, if everyone could hear him, and that gets my okay just for that tender thought.
I'm more into the little details like the music, the program, the RSVP list, etc. Almost like an extension of my daily job. But, God bless Glenn for being my memory--- to remind me of things needing attention, my legs--- to run errands, and just sheer excitement---because I'm more apt to concentrate on the details, that I would fully miss the joy. It's a blessing to know how important you are to someone.
So....two weeks, a couple of days and counting..................................
1.24.2011
Right now, there are wedding "things" all over the house...as an attempt to remember what goes with us...and where. We are planning two receptions...a cake and punch reception after the service...and a dinner reception later on for family and a few close friends. (get those reply cards in)
We decided to hire a house sitter. Between Glenn and I, we have four dogs who are all use to getting a lot of attention. That's putting my mind at ease since Chloe and Hailey have seizures some times...all the dogs are over 10 years old....and 14 days is a long time not to be loved on.
If we've left anyone off the guest list accidentally, please know you are welcome to come. The wedding is February 19th, 2:00 p.m. at FBCR. It's going to be a little nontraditional, but anyone who knows me knows that I just have this creative little quirk in my personality, that some times likes to mix things up a little, and jump off a dock alone....just to test the waters. I think the service will be a very worshipful experience.
That's about it for now.................
1.20.2011
Thank you for your continued prayers, as we proceed forward. Also, please keep my son and his family in your prayers. Matt broke his foot Tuesday, and they all have all been sick in his family with viruses. That's really tough to deal with when you have an infant and a toddler. So your prayers would be a blessing here, as well.
We did received good news this week that Jill's mom, Judy, is cancer free again and will begin biological therapy in a few weeks to help prevent any further tumors from developing. Such a blessing to know she is being covered in prayer. She is such a sweet, loving friend, and it is a burden lifted, knowing she is doing better. Thank you for all of your prayers.
1.16.2011
God has placed so many beautiful, sweet people in my life who have prayed me across every mountain and through every valley. They could never really know how deeply their love and support has carried me over these last four years. I couldn't have stood through such a frightening time without them. Their hugs comforted my heart as if they came directly from Gods own arms and their loving words were a soothing balm to my deepest wounds. I have been so blessed!
1.14.2011
1.13.2011
It helps that Glenn is really enjoying all of this and can run all over town and back, doing things while I'm at work. So we may just pull this celebration off after all!
Your continued prayers for peace and understanding would be greatly appreciated.
Isaiah 61:3(amplified bible version)
“To grant consolation and joy to those who mourn in Zion..To give them an ornament of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, the garment of praise instead of a heavy, burdened, and failing spirit..That they may be called “oaks of righteousness”, the planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified.”