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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.
I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.
At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett
"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)
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If I can aid some soul to clearer sight Of light and duty and thus bless my brother;
If I can wipe from any human cheek a tear I shall not have, then, lived in vain while here.
If I can guide some erring to truth Inspire within his heart a sense of duty;
If I can plant within the soul of a rosy plant A sense of light, a love of truth and beauty;
If I can teach one man that God and Heaven are near; I shall not have, then, lived in vain while here.
If from my mind I can banish doubt and fear And keep my life attuned to truth, love and kindness;
If I can scatter light and hope and cheer And help and remove the curse of mental blindness;
If I can make joy more, more hope, less pain I shall not have, lived in vain while here.
If by life’s road side I can plant a tree Beneath whose shade some wearied head may rest
Though I may never share its shade or see Its beauty I shall yet be truly blessed
Though no one knows my name.