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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.

I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.

At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett

"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)

1.11.2012



Monday the dressing was removed from my right foot and the stitches were taken out.  I am suppose to be wearing a walking cast for the next 5 weeks, although I'm having a little swelling, and that is making it uncomfortable right now.  So, I'm spending a lot of time with "toes above the nose."  I return to see the surgeon in February.

The Christmas decorations are down and put away, thanks to Glenn, Matt and Zac.  So Amber's birthday party looked liked I had hoped it would, and she seemed to have a nice celebration.





It gets a little hard around this time of year, for me, when so many celebrations are happy ones.  But sandwiched in the middle of Amber's and Matt's birthday, was Mike's, which this Saturday would have been his 56th. 

I read in the news today where this married couple, who celebrated six decades together, died within 12 hours of one another.  Neither, needing to learn to live without the other, for too long.  I'm so grateful for them...even though it makes my heart a little sad, at the same time.  Learning to go on, after losing Mike, has been really rough.  The only reason I have been able  to, is because of those faces in today's post.







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