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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.

I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.

At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett

"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)

5.29.2009

I came home from work today and found Mike in bed, asleep, and having a difficult time getting up. His fever was gone, but he was extremely weak. He didn't even have the strength later in the evening to hold his grandson. Ethan and his parents had visited, and Ethan wanted "Papaw" to pick him up to go "drum." Mike didn't have any energy. So I carried Ethan over to the studio, and Mike watched Ethan drum seated in his daddy and mommy's lap. For Mike not to carry Ethan, or sit with him to drum, gives you an idea of how Mike is feeling. The effects of these treatments discourage Mike easily, so this is an area he could especially use your prayers.

We never did hear anything back on the labs taken yesterday, so unless they plan to give us that information on Tuesday morning, we're hoping everything is well within the limits necessary to continue with treatment.

Our son-in-law, Zac, will be giving us a hand tomorrow in trimming back our trees along the driveway. The trees have really become overgrown the last two years. I've never operated a chainsaw...and may look a little scary trying to figure one out. So we might seat Mike in a lawn chair, safely to the side, to help give Zac and I a little direction. You might remember us in prayer concerning this project. :)

"Rejoice in hope; be patient in affliction; be persistent in prayer." Romans 12:12

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