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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.

I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.

At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett

"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)

5.14.2009

UPDATED: 6:30 p.m.

Overnight, Mike and I made the decision to call LR to schedule another biliary exchange for him. Things only seem to be worsening on his right side, and we would just be delaying the inevitable if we waited. We are disappointed these tubes lasted less than one month. The tube exchange will be done at 1:30, tomorrow (Friday) afternoon. If sedation isn't used, we should be home by late afternoon. Please pray that Mike's blood pressure stays up enough for them to give him pain medication...to keep him comfortable during the procedure. He always has low blood pressure, but if it dips too low, they have to use the pain medication sparingly. Mike is feeling very weak tonight. He never got out of bed today until he knew Drew (our grandson) was stopping by. When they left, Mike went back to bed. I think we're dealing with biliary trouble and side effects of chemotherapy at the same time.

We have an answer to prayer! I had a second interview yesterday, for a church administrative assistant position, I had applied for a month ago. I received their offer this morning for the job and will begin at the end of this month. They are fully aware of our situation and need.

I want to thank all of you who were praying with me about this possibility. God continues to provide and care for Mike and I, and many of you have been His hand in doing this. Mike and I could never thank you enough for your love, concern, and support. We only know God will bless you, as you have us.

Please pray for Mike's protection while we're at the hospital tomorrow. With his counts being so low right now, I worry having him around so many who may be sick.

"Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you." 1 Peter 5:6-7

1 comment:

Pam Philley said...

I am so happy about your job offer. This is such an answer to prayer!

We will be praying that Mike's exchange will go as planned and he will be on mend quickly.

Love you guys,
Pam