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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.
I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.
At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett
"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)
8.29.2009
Mike slept in late today, but since he has been up, I have seen a marked improvement. The swelling in his left arm/hand has gone down a little, as well as the swelling in his feet and ankles. I don't know if the Lovenox injections into his stomach are responsible, or if God and prayers are, but I am grateful.
He hasn't eaten very much today. He still feels very full, even after only drinking a half of an Ensure, a pinch of dinner and a pinch of apple pie.
We have been blessed today with visits and phone calls from family and friends. We couldn't be made to feel any more special than we do. AND....my son-in-law even repaired my evil weedeater, which constantly threw my cutting cord across the yard every time I started it up. I can't tell you how helpful that is going to be, especially at keeping my Christian witness. ;)
Anyway, it has been a day of blessings and gratefulness. Gratefulness for 34 years of a love of a lifetime. Gratefulness for 4 children and 2 grandsons. Gratefulness for dear family and friends. We are truly blessed!
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