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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.

I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.

At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett

"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)

8.30.2009

Mike must be feeling a pinch better because his sense of humor has been in perfect form today. He has been giving me, and others, a hard time. It was one of his quirky character traits that made me fall in love with him so many years ago. I think that sense of humor has been profound in helping others in the oncology office, to see a lighter side to the day. No matter how painful or difficult the journey might be, a good attitude helps.

Mike finished his Lovenox injection tonight. He will stay off of them until Tuesday, and then will continue them for a couple of more days after his procedure. He's anxious to get this paracentesis over with, and is expecting great things after it gets in. He's eaten very little today, hoping that tomorrow, he'll be rid of the mini-football he feels is in his abdomen due to the excess fluid. He still will need to clear the INR test before the procedure can take place. We hope to have that done early tomorrow morning. The procedure is scheduled for 1 p.m.

We appreciate your love, concern and prayers. You've helped us stand when life's storms have tried to blow us down. We could never thank you enough.

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