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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.

I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.

At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett

"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)

1.04.2012

Today was a new adventure for me, almost as fun as the one I had on Monday. 

Glenn wanted to go grocery shopping, but really felt he needed me to come along because it had been awhile since we last went. 

I had made up my mind to wear myself out on my crutches, and just sit down on Wal-mart's spiffy little benches, placed nicely around the store, but Glenn had another plan in mind.  He gave me the choice of a scooter, or a wheelchair attached to a huge basket in front of it.  I should have just dressed up as a clown to call anymore attention to myself.

But all joking aside, what stood out mostly to me today, in this position, was how many people are suffering in this store, in this town, in this country, in this world.

I saw many people with visible obstacles, they were trying to live with, using a scooter or wheelchair; but I saw many others who obviously weren't taking the easier away around by standing.  They were fighting with all of the energy they had in them to get around the store walking.  It made me want to hop out of my scooter, and hop the remainder of the way around the store.  I was more embarrassed by this, than my initial concern.

Having had a husband that fought cancer, it isn't hard to spot someone fighting for their life.  I saw so many fighters today.  I also have a dear family member, who looks healthy... but who is daily fighting cancer with constant discomfort. (Tomorrow, she is scheduled to have a tumor removed at 1p.m., so please pray for her.)

Some times I think many of us need to slow down and look around us, more than plodding through life, gripping about everything that doesn't go exactly the way we want, or for some temporary discomfort, or inconvenience.  It certainly gave me something to think about......that was...when I wasn't trying to steer clear of displays or other people.

1 comment:

Kim said...

It's really hard for me to be a "patient" too. I would much rather be the one doing the caring than being cared for ;) Thank you for your post. We all need to be reminded sometimes that there are people all around us who need our encouragement and support. I have really good intentions, but sometimes struggle with the "action" part. I hope to take more opportunities to put kindness into action this year. I am always praying that God will place people in my path that need help...now I just need to open my eyes and get past my awkwardness and help. Sending lots of love and prayers your way. I hope you mend soon...and enjoy the Christmas decorations a little longer. I'm sure they are beautiful and as long as they are put away by Easter it will be okay ;)