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In 2007, I began my original website, Sonshine's Haven. In 2007, it was turned into a blog and used to keep family updated on my first husband's fight with liver cancer. He passed away November of 2009. We were married for 34+ wonderful years and this journals some of that grief process I've gone through.
I have since remarried another widower, but Mike is missed dearly, and will always be a big part of my life.
At times, all of us will be called to act as witnesses to the suffering of another. We will be unable to affect the outcome physically. Words will fail us. Prayer will seem futile. And yet, the act of bearing witness to someone else's trials is a sacred sorrow that offers and astounding glimpse of eternal joy." by Ginger Garrett
"Being willing to stay with a loved one throughout their travail, can be difficult....YES! But offering yourselves as faithful companions on a dark and dreadful journey can be an unmeasured blessing." (paraphrased by me)
5.27.2009
Mike did have a mini meltdown while I was gone today though, when our new insurance company informed him that his Xeloda ($2000 oral chemotherapy) prescription wasn't covered under the plan. I can just imagine his reaction. He learned this person was incorrect, but not until he shook out of his skin trying to get to the bottom of things. He had recovered by the time I got home from work. He was able to go to the pharmacy and pick up his second cycle of Xeloda to begin taking tonight. I'm praying his reaction to it won't be as severe this time around.
Mike was called by the oncologists office to come back in tomorrow morning for more lab work. Evidently, they didn't use the specimen from Tuesday to run the TSH test, so they will do that tomorrow.
Thank you so much for praying for Mike and our family. You're lifting our burdens, and carrying us through some very deep water. God continues to bless us through your friendship, and with His grace and His mercy.
You will find an update on Beverly below, under Reflection.
"Holding the heart of another in the comforting hands of prayer is a pricelss act of love." -Janet L. Weaver
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